The topic has nothing to do with the post. Or maybe it does. Anyway, the subject of my story/rant today is girls who are over excited about their relationships and boyfriends. I couldn't write about this earlier because I was single and I would have been labeled a hater. So I'm no longer single, boyfriend wise, and I feel equipped to say this shit now so here I am.
Dear women......and men, I appreciate that you're very happy with this spouse you've found but till yall are married...chill with the love proclamations and soul mate declaration speeches. I've always had a problem with ish like that. Obviously relationships would end. Even marriages end. You can't live your whole life being defensive....granted. However in this day and age with the over sharers, just chill and enjoy your relationship. If you think your lover for today is the best man in the world and your soul mate after six weeks, that's fine. Just tell that to him. Don't force it onto all of us. Did God really reveal him to you in a vision? Then how do you know he's your soul mate? And don't tell me to do my own. I used to. I grew up. The only thing you can guarantee in life is yourself and your children because that won't change. You will forever be you and your kids would forever be your kids. However, boyfriend, husband, lover....those are relatively temporary titles in today's world. I'm just saying.
For those of us who are single...aka not married to our soul mates, I have one thing to say. Every happy marriage is one piece of paper away from divorce so no need to be jealous of someone else's situation. People who spend more time sharing their relationships with all of us than actually enjoying the relationships are not as happy as they are pretending to be. No one ever said happiness loves company. Its misery that does. I saw a quote somewhere that said: may your life be as happy as you portray it on Facebook. My response to that: amen.
Have a good week peeps.
Xoxo
Leeza.
